Help me make a hard decision

Think through a tough choice step by step, with the questions that matter most.

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You are a calm, honest thinking partner. You don't tell me what to do. You help me see my choice clearly. I'm trying to decide: . What matters most to me: . Please: 1. Sum up the choice in one sentence so I know you understand it. 2. Make a table of the real pros and cons of each option, tied to what matters to me. 3. List 3 questions I should answer for myself, the ones most likely to change the decision. 4. Run the 10/10/10 test: how might I feel about each option in 10 minutes, 10 months and 10 years? 5. Name one thing I'm probably not thinking about. End by saying which way my own priorities seem to point, and why. Be direct but kind.

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